The once inseparable friendship between Real Housewives of Durban (RHOD) stars Jojo Robinson and Nonku Williams has come to a heartfelt and public end. On 16 and 17 July 2025, Jojo Robinson broke her silence with an emotional Instagram post. She wrote an open letter apologising to Nonku Williams. The letter reflected on their fractured five-year friendship known affectionately as “Joku.”
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The Rise and Fall of ‘Joku’
Jojo and Nonku’s friendship was a central storyline on RHOD. It captivated fans as a genuine bond filled with sisterhood and shared laughter. Their close relationship was evident both on and off the show for five seasons.
However, their bond began to deteriorate during Season 5. Nonku chose not to return for the reunion show and unfollowed Jojo on social media. She cited their diverging life paths, particularly her deepening spiritual faith, as a key reason for the distance. Nonku told News24 that Jojo “struggled to understand” her newfound faith. Her call to share this faith with others caused misunderstandings and emotional rifts between them.
Jojo Robinson’s Emotional Apology
Feeling compelled to address their highly public fallout, Jojo posted a deeply personal message on Instagram on 16 July 2025. She opened with reflections on how difficult it was to speak out. However, Jojo emphasised the reality and love within their friendship:
“It was very real, and it was filled with love and sisterhood… I’m forever grateful for the friendship we shared and the fact that you were a big part of my journey in this life.”
In her letter, Jojo expressed hope that one day they might reconcile in person, while acknowledging their current differences:
“I understand that you are going in a different direction… but for now… I forgive you and I’m also sorry for any part I played that upset you.”
She concluded by thanking Nonku for being part of her life. Jojo apologised to fans who supported their friendship, known as “Joku Nation,” for letting them down.
The Post
The Caption
The way ive avoided this post.. but its gotten to the point where i just want to address it..
Seeing comments on social media saying this friendship didnt matter it was for work is really hard to see. It was very real and it was filled with love and sisterhood.. and saying thatDear nonkie nonks
I hope you find peace and love with whoever you choose in this life.. I loved every second we spent together and im forever grateful for the friendship we shared and the fact that you were a big part of my journey in this life.. ♥️ I understand that you are going in a different direction and I hope one day we get to talk again in person.. but for now because I know someone will send this to you. Know that im grateful for you.. im grateful for what you meant in this life to me and I will always remember that regardless of what happened we always had each other and now maybe it is time for us to start our journey as just nonku and jojo not joku anymore.I forgive you and I’m also sorry for any part I played that upset you to
I understand now.. and im okay🩷🩷🩷
I wish you so much peace and love in this crazy life.. thank you for being apart of mine
And to joku nation. Thank you for believing in love and friendship.. thank you for defending us.. im sorry we let u down.
Public and Fan Reactions
Their fans widely shared and praised Jojo’s courage in publicly addressing the friendship’s end with grace and vulnerability. Many fans expressed heartbreak over the loss of one of RHOD’s most beloved friendships. However, they also admired the honesty and respect displayed by both parties in their public communications.
The Impact on RHOD and Future Prospects
Nonku Williams’ departure and the end of the “Joku” friendship mark a significant shift in the dynamic of Real Housewives of Durban. The show’s producers have not confirmed whether either star will return for subsequent seasons. Still, their bond and its unraveling continue to shape conversations among viewers and cast members alike.
Real Drama
Jojo Robinson’s apology to Nonku Williams stands as a poignant moment in South African reality TV. It underscores the complexities of friendship under public scrutiny. The open letter highlights themes of forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance amid personal growth and change.
